It's silly to be afraid of making messes.
The current State of the Union can be described in two words: Destination Unknown (cue the Missing Persons' song!)
We don't know where we're going, exactly; we don't know what we're doing either. We don't know who we'll be when we get there. We're not sure how to create the life we want.
But we know we'll go and do all those things together.